"That's a thing that girls let slide, because you have to," the student explains.
In high-school terms, that means math nerds date math nerds, though members of the debate team may also qualify.) he or she seeks in a partner as well as what he or she ends up getting.
The idea is that men and women—jocks and dorks, freshman and seniors—base their search not only on the characteristics of their chosen partner, but also the expected terms of the relationship.
A tamer version of that observation is borne out in the economists' work among high schoolers.
Unsurprisingly, the majority of high school boys want to have sex (though only 47.6 percent of freshmen boys do).
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